[a_sh]

aint it a drag, huh?

i just got home from a party.
i met a quite amazing lady at this party. we got along quite well as far as i could tell...

problem is, at the end of the evening, she sayed the dreaded words "i'll call you!"

and i had not even given her my number!

bad bad bad...

now, to somewhat lessen the looser-like feel of this message i could tell you a lot of things... but honestly i don't feel like it. i just feel like waiting and seeing if she will call...

hopefully she will, probably she will not...

well, this was a totally useless post. sorry that i wasted your time... =(

anyway, the reason i posted this was to ask you this question:

what do you do when you get dumped, to lessen the pain?

personally, i like to draw a bunch of strange hatefull stuff. what do you prefer?

[Impaler]

Photography. You're forced to take your mind off wenches and put it to composition, and interesting subjects. It always works for me.

Never write anything, since you usually just write a bunch of overly emotional junk that you hold to be poetic and therefore true, when it usually is not.

Anyways, meeting girls at parties is like catching fish with your barehands. You never really expect to be successful, but you go for it anyway. Here you are, standing knee deep in the ebbing social currents, and a catch swims your way. You do your best to stand still, to not draw so much attention to yourself as to seem desperate. Just when she draws close, you make a grab for it. If you have good reflexes and an eye for evasion, you come out with a whopper to take home to ma. Other times, when you think you have her in your hands, when you can feel her wriggling in your palm, she slips out at the last minute, going on to test the rest of the waters. It's to no fault of your own that she did; ladies are just plain tricky.

[a_sh]

Impaler: so true!

[sacrelicious]

Plus, de-scaling them is a bitch.

[Jezebel]

Hmmm.... well, I hadn't really considered it possible to be "dumped" by someone you only just met. I always thought that was more of a relationship thing.

But either way... man that sucks. Hope she calls. :\

*hug*

[Coaster]

Thats why you always carry a spear..
because if someone makes a useless post..

aye, some sympathy your way though, but at least you only knew the person for the length of a social gathering not for like say, 2 social gatherings.

"What doesn't kill me can only make me whine"

[scylla]

I really can't see how she could call...considering she doesn't have your number!

But you do realise that there is one scenario that you have simply overlooked?

maybe she's a real ditzy bitch and said she'd call you, but had forgotten that she didn't have your number. Maybe she had every intention to call, and is now cursing herself for her limited intelligence!! haha.

And us girls are nothing like fish! sheesh!!!

I could make a really crass comment right now, actually...about ..well..ugh....one possibly related characteristic...urm...no, its too crass.

:P

[iByrn]

Jesus...what is this obsession with "significant other" relationships? I just don't get it. Every time I visit a message board I see a thread about love/girls/boys. Maybe I'm just asexual, but I find the idea of being chained to another person to be very unattractive. Ugh...I'm such a weirdo, I know. I think I'll always be a loner.

[Loki]

a_sh: Hang in there. If it's meant to be, she will call - if not take it like a man (and cry where nobody can see you )
But I know how it feels - so, here's a pat on the shoulder

scylla: I knew Impaler was getting us in trouble with his poetic fish catching metaphor. But maybe you're taking it too literal ...

iByrn: There are threads like these everywhere - because it's a very interesting topic to think/write/talk about.

[scylla]

hahah nah not taking it literally, just making a (rather pathetic) joke

ps. boys are smelly.

more so than girls.

[Giant Hamster]

Umm...Hi. There really isn't much you can do. Just say, "Oh Well" and get over it or Something. It's really not that big of a deal. She's a bitch. You're an asshole. Horray for capitalism.


"Lucky my breasts are small and hummble
So you don't mistake them for mountains..."

[a_sh]

hehe, thank you everyone for your support!

it really wasn't THAT big a deal after all.

jezebel: i should probably have used the term "turned down" instead of "dumped". that would have been more accurate

scylla: actually, the ditzy one is me. i totally forgot that i met her at a party last saturday too... that was abit awkward (and no, it wasn't because i was wasted or anything, i just have the worst remembering skill in history)

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[gLitterbug]

Hey Alex, don�t take it too serious, I know it�s easier to say that than to do it, but try to keep yer head up.

I for myself don�t mind getting dumped too much, but then I�m already used to it
For me it�s much harder to get in contact with a girl, than to cope with getting dumped. As long as she isn�t your dreamwoman it�s probably half as bad.

Other momma�s have beautiful daughters too

[[666]Flat]

No, she won't call. She still does not have your phone number. Me smart. Bye.

[travis travis]

You know who has dating easy? The ugliest man on earth. Cause he has nothing to loose by putting himself out there, he's ugly and he knows it. You know who has dating hard? All the other billions of men between the ugliest and the best looking. Well even the best looking will at times be concerned whether he's at his best or not, the ugly man, he's got the spot!

[Bouncy Ninja]

maybe she will get your number from the host of the party.... after the host cleans the stain of the rug befor the "adults" come home....


good luck

[A.Buttle]

Jamez - you whore, you.