[Jabberwocky]

Okay you guys know women like we know guys...

Anyways my X b/f and I went to the big football game last night... from the moment we got there he was making sexual commits to my friends and then I ran into his X g/f before me and she told me all this shit and I flipped... I took him out in the stands infront of all my friends. I pushed him and then start going off... (not many people saw... too interested in the game).

We talked for about 4 hour total last night afterwards.

He tells me he still loves me, but that he's still mad and embrassed to give me a straight answer on if we're totally over or not. He says right now what he thinks (which is it's over) is because he's mad and upset, and is more than likely wrong...

We both know I have a short fuse and I get pist easily... (but I'm working on it and I only get pissy at him once a month... ummm?)And he does nothing to try and stop these rumors... I heard the some of the same ones for 3 years.

This town is driving me crazy and I can't wait to leave this summer and never come back. And if people would just keep their cake holes shut about all these rumors we'd be fine.

Anyways what's up with him? Is there a chance? I'm tired of him saying this and then never telling me what's going on...

I told him I'm sorry (I know that means nothing now), but what can I do to make it up to him?

HELP.... PLEASE.... I just want us to be together again and be happy. I'm fine with what we had before last night... I only wanted change the fact that he was no longer my boyfriend... I wanted more of a commitment there.

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You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

[FaithInChaos]

if hes your ex, why are you acting like hes still your boyfriend? if all you want is a fuck partner go ahead im sure its what he wants too, i wouldnt suggest trying to have a serious relationship though because from what you have posted you both are too screwed up to be having a relationship with anyone, let alone each other.

[aquamire]

Where on earth do you live? are the people as terrible as they are here? Because my ex girlfriend (whom im still very good friends with) wants to do the same.. move away. The people here, her ex boyfriend (not me) are just terrible. Rumours everywhere! And I had to deal with it when I was going out with her.. I found out just about all the rumours were false, her "friends" are just fucking insane. I got to know her very well.. and I loved her dearly. I still do. And I worry about her all the time. Because these "friends" just use her and abuse her, just like her old boyfriend. Whom by the way stocked us.


Anyways, you wont like to hear it, but are you sure he's not just using you? I know guys who have done this. It's terrible. I see people like you, they let this happen to them, in the name of love.. thats the only reason you would put up with it. And I wont be a hypocrite.. I'm the exact same way.

I duno what else to say. My ex just told me she thinks she still has deep feelings. You wouldnt believe how much I've missed having her near me. But its pretty stressful since she's leaving.

I'll shutup now. I duno if I can give you much advice.. I'm kinda in the same situation, only a little more scattered and flipped.



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[Jabberwocky]

I figured I'll just chill... if he really loves me he'll come back.

And at the time He wasn't my X we had gotten back together for a short time. And no I don't want just a fuck partner I was wanting a relationship...

And yes this town is just as bad. Everyone has to know what's going on in everyones life... if they don't they make it up. If people were to just leave us alone from the very beginning we would have been fine... a lot of the fights we had was becasue of all these damn rumors... Most of them started from his "friends" and then my friends are being jerks about our relationship. If we could just leave this town and move FAR away from here and try again we would be able to do it.


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You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

[Silico]

send me a pic and i'll tell you j/k


Jabberwocky-

!!! get away from him!! holy jeez it sounds like he's not even a friend anymore let alone xbf!! *sighs* sheesh just, quit restricting yourself from other people and just flow and go and i bet soon enough you'll get a MUCH better relationship than with him. even if you don't, while you're gone prowling for men, he might just come back for ya. and if he doesn't, then there you have it - you found out he really doesn't want you. hmm relationships are tough little buggers, and if you try too hard to get involved in one, you'll end up not liking it. don't go in a relationship thinking it's the best guy ever you've ever met or else you're bound to be disappointed. alright, i'm not sure if i was really much help, but anyways hey... yeah, just be happy and don't let anyone get in the way of that.




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[Chris]

Situation sounds weird, I didn't really understand you conflict, but there is a difference between love and 'relationship status'.

If he loved you (which I doubt it) he wouldn't have said anything in the first place. I really don't care if he said sorry, he doesn't love you.

And you said you get mad at him once a month, 2 things could be wrong there, first, PMS..doubt that though, 2nd he does stupid things which reflect on you. Which then again, people who love each other don't do.

And also, you saying 'if he loves me he will come back' that isn't love, that is loneliness. If he loved you, he would do more then JUST come back, he would apologize, gifterize you and apologize again, cause he doesn't sound very people smart.

Sounds to me that you need to leave in the summer relationship free and be gone with the town rumors and past.

That is my opinion