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Jabberwocky · Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2000 1:31 pm

Okay I got ditched again by my boyfriend... You'd think I'd learn. Anyways he won't give me a reason why he's dumping me, but all I can figure is that when we got back together he wanted space (seperate lives). Okay cool with me I have a life... he has something (I'm not sure what). Well He wants to know who I'm with where'd we go, how long I was out, who paid for what... I told him I felt I had no need to explain myself to him (not like I was cheating on him... I wasn't.) That's the only reason why I can think he broke it off this time. Last time was he left me for his computer game... which he still plays daily.
Anyways... this has to be one of the lamest reasons for breaking up... What's yours... either one you've told someone or someone told you!

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Nex · Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2000 1:49 pm

"I am not ready yet for a relationship, it has been only a year that I separated with my last boyfriend."

This was the lamest yet.

btw if your bf breaks up because of a computer game -> he is wacko or has other reasons to break up.

balistic · Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2000 2:58 pm

I had a girl dump me and then try and get me in a threesome with my former best friend who she'd been doing behind my back the whole time.

Bitch.

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Lukias · Guest Member #

"You fucked my mate, go away"

When I was 14 I broke up with a chick because other people told me she was uncool.

....now do you like me?

honestly, I'm not shallow....honestly

Transcendence · Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2000 6:25 pm

not an ex story type thing, but dont go on a date to the movies with chain smokers....especially if you want to see that movie.

faustgfx · Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2000 3:44 am

after 1.5 weeks, she told me to fuck off. why? 'cause it was one day to go 'till my pay-day and i didn't have tons of money to spend on her.

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CyberLink · Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2000 4:06 am

2 faustgfx:

You're lucky that it took 1,5 weeks only to discover her unpleasant nature

Spitfire · Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2000 6:37 am

Have never been dumped by a girl i had a relationship with, i have however been dumped a zillion times before it got that far.

Chapel · member Member # Joined: 18 Mar 2000 Posts: 1930

I've been given the "you are too nice" and the "lets just be friends" excuse. Last girl dumped me because she didn't think she wanted a relationship after her previous one 3 years ago.

By the way.. I thought Jabberwocky was a guy.

"I just wanna be loved... is that sooo wrong?" - John Lovitz

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Spitfire · Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2000 1:27 pm

Morning Again knows the answer to that question

*distorted guitairs*
*double-bass drumming*
*"Love is never wrong!!! aaaghhh!!! Never wrong!!!"*
*evil riffage*

Just gotta love mid-ninieties metalcore.

Jabberwocky · Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2000 6:24 pm

Sorry to disappoint you. I am female! Okay my Xbf has some major issues... it's called be too damn addicted to computers... yes it can happen. I was there... don't let it happen to you! Go out side, go see a movie, go call a friend, go read a book, but please don't spend all your time at a computer.

My favorite one is that "In a magazine I read we are just not compatible." I think that if he's reading Seventeen there's a problem right there!

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Spooky · Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2000 8:56 pm

This reminds me of a cutscene Easter Egg in Jurassic Park: The Lost World for the Playstation. Actually you can view it by getting all the DNA fragments too I believe, but as I'm a motion graphics and video editor, I went to the cheat menu to see all the motion graphics. Anyway, it's Ian Malcom (Jeff Goldblum's Character) congratulating you from Isla Sorna for finishing the game. He tells you 'now turn the thing off, go outside, let the stink blow off you, call a member of the opposite sex..'. It's quite an amusing reminder to not spend too much time in front of computers or game consoles when there are much more rewarding and funner things to experience and play with. :-) My wife and I both love computers and video games (we met on the computer after all) but often when we're together, we hardly ever touch our Macs. Even though we spend long hours on the machines doing our work, we know where the real fun is! People who spend more time on the games and computers than with their wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, husbands or lovers, need to wake up and keep an eye in the real. Enjoy! Now go make love to your spouses or partners!

FaithInChaos · member Member # Joined: 27 Aug 2000 Posts: 183

bah...
what do you think internet porn is for?
jabberwocky you dont answer emails at phl do you?

Chapel · member Member # Joined: 18 Mar 2000 Posts: 1930

Hey not disappointed here. Makes me happy to see more women on the forum. Don't know why.. maybe it is just a comfort thing. Or it just increases the odds of talking to a girl for me.. hehe.

Ian · Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2000 6:51 am

Anyways..."I like you as my fren, but not boyfren...."
I still don't get it...oh well. Maybe I never will.
Ian

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Count Zero · Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2000 7:18 am

Never been dumped or dumped anybody. Been in the one and only relationship o' my life for the past several years.
Mortally afraid of BEING heaved though...

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faustgfx · Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2000 9:10 am

*trash guitar*
*speed*
"GAAAAHAAAAAAARGh" followed by a "who needs love when we've goit pain?" -scream.

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Jabberwocky · Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2000 12:52 pm

FaithInChaos- I didn't know I had an E-mail at phl...
On the other hand... any of you guys single?

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Chapel · member Member # Joined: 18 Mar 2000 Posts: 1930

If I was anymore single they would rename the number one after me. But, I'm probably too old anyways.

By the way, you are looking for single guys in a thread titled "Dumped?". Kinda like going to an all-you-can-eat buffet and looking for a fat guy.

Brain · Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2000 10:06 pm

Never been dumped, never dumped anyone. You need to be in a relationship first. Yeesh... going on 18, and still no gf. Depressing indeed...

Isric · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2000 10:13 am

A year ago I went out this this girl who I thought was perfect. We were counsellors at camp and she seemed perfect. We were dating a few months after summer, turns out she was the oposite of everything I was attracted to. Me and a friend were discussing it one day and I decided enough was enough, buuuut..she called me first and said "this isn't working, lets just be friends, blah blah relationship, blah monkey pants learned a lot from this whole thing blah blah." or something like that, i wasn't paying attention cause I was shaking with glee.
We broke up and tried the friends thing, she tried going out with my closest friend, failed. I don't really feel bitter anymore, I just don't like her as a person.
Thats my story, and I figure if girls are like this, incapable of have a REAL relationship, with commitment and the whole deal? I'll wait a few years so they can mature thank you very much.

DaveT · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2000 12:13 pm

My girl dumped me because I skated too much...

And maybe because I never went out with her that much....

Or maybe because she found out im half english...

Anyway she said that the only time she got to see me was at the weekend and I was always down at the skatepark, and chicks fear the skatepark!

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Wyatt Turner · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2000 1:00 pm

I did a major crap!
I dated this girl for a few months and I knew here for a few years as a ***friend***

but some how I got here to date me.
WOW! she was great in bed. But then we thought that we would live together. Get out of our birds nest per say. Then shit started to fly.. And it flew on a regular basis for about 8 months.. Damn I lasted awhile with my sanity. The breaking point became the day she brought a exboy friend over with out my knoledge. We were kinda drifting apart. BUt my buddy and I were doing our art thing in my studio while she did the ex in the Living room with people watch and what not. Wierd shit... But she was freeky when it came to sex. I snaped at that point, threw some crap around chased the dude.. all that fun stuff.
the next day pack my shit up and have not seen here since.
Damn girl was a narco sleeping druged up cunt.

Learned my lesson though.
Found the right girl a few months later.
Recently got hitched.

No problems since.. loving life now

y@ http://eighthdecay.gt.to/

CapnPyro · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2000 1:23 pm

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Last time was he left me for his computer game... which he still plays daily.

Mind if I ask which one?

I mean if you break up with a girl for a computer game, it must be pretty cool, right? I wouldnt mind playin a game that fun. Oh, and sorry bout the bone head

If you say the game is EverCrack.. err EverQuest, you should of kicked him to the curb long ago, that game sucks

-CapnPyro

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Jabberwocky · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2000 2:00 pm

The game was Unreal CTF... it was okay at first, but then he started getting negitive and yelling, and just rude... then Diablo II came out... oh hell with in the first week I saw 5 relationships go down the drain... long term relationships. He doesn't play Diablo II much anymore it's still Unreal, Quake III, SOF, and there's another but I really can care less... and he pays $150 a month to play at this place when he has better connection at his house... not like they talk to anyone there...

The Evercrack... my bad Ever Quest was me I got addicted... it was kind of a forced thing I did to myself. It was the only game I really cared to play and I wanted to spend time with him so I played why he did... WOW is that really considered spending time with each other?

And I'm not afraid of skate parks... hell I skate.

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InDepth · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2000 2:27 pm

I seem to be a dump magnet! Here are the worst two so far:

1. REALLY liked this girl once. She liked me too. We started dating. She said I wasn't sexually aggressive enough and dumped me two days later.... I was twelve.

2. Engaged... joined the Marines for fun and profit. 18 year old fiancee cheated on me with a 13 year old boy halfway through boot-camp.... bitch!

Now I am happily married for 4 years and all those other women (girls) can just go to hell.

Eric

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Shadow · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2000 11:31 pm

never been dumped or dumped anyone, well i never been in a real relationship either, i'm 15/m, I kinda had this g/f a few years ago, but I had to move and never seen her again (we were just friends tho, mostly) so i'm single right now heh.. I guess thats one way of breaking up

-S

faustgfx · Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2000 4:00 pm

they can all go to hell anyway.

up to this day in my life, there's one female that i can come along with. and that's 'cause she's higher up the ladder in my company. arse.

i got rejected about fifteen or so minutes in to the date thing when she, about the same age as i am, decided that i am way too old for her. *shrug*

one refused to talk to me any further 'cause i didn't let her bite my arm.

one this one that. god we're a sad god damn bunch here in this forum.

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Count Zero · Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2000 4:52 am

Anyone here have any positive stories about relationships? 'Cause there are two threads dealing with how much the opposite sex sucks...

Here's my contribution:
My parents met each other in school, got engaged at 16, got married at 18 (at the time they had to ask special permission from their parents, because of the laws) and are still married. Thirty years of happy marriage coming up soon.
This, needless to say, causes some amount of pressure for me. :\

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Jabberwocky · Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2000 9:03 am

My X(?) b/f's parents went to high school together and got married in college... had to boys together, and are still so much in love... when one walks into the room the other just lights up. It's so beautiful.

And with me and my X (?) break up never lasts long... I give it about a few more weeks... he's already coming around, but he just wants to be "friends"...

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