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Aura · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 9:11 am

Whats the most desirable trait in a guy and/or girl?

fshock · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 11:27 am

Compassion

Poxin · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 2:53 pm

having an open mind

c · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 3:22 pm

"Eyebrows that don't meet in the middle."

Ok where'd my twezers go..

Jezebel · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 3:31 pm

Hahahaha, Pat!

I'm gonna have to go with hygiene... because if someone has bad hygiene you can just forget about getting to know me because I won't stand anywhere near ya. *chuckles*

Jezebel · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 3:34 pm

I realized that what I said above isn't necessarily the most "desirable"... it's just the most important I suppose. (important because the other more smooshy things like "a good heart" don't matter if someone has only 3 blackened, rotting teeth in their mouth. I would just never get past the first conversation with someone who obviously cared nothing about themselves)

"desirable" would probably be... hmmm.... yeah, I'll go with compassion too. :]

Ahcri · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 6:02 pm

Similar interest.

Anthony · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 7:34 pm

jeez, there are so many without which good points are almost useless. For instance, if someone has compassion but no intelligence, then I may not mind the person, but I can't really have the person as a close friend, because I can't talk to the person. If a person is smart but an @$$hole, I'll make fun of him(yes, I will, I'm mean). But if a person is average in every other way, but could stand out in one aspect, I'd choose wisdom.

Steelwind · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 9:23 pm

There's really too many for me to list...probably why I've been single for so long...but I'll go with an open mind, just for the sake of argument. I can't stand close-minded people.

Steelwind

LinaBo · Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2001 11:32 pm

well, i'm currently seeking mutual empathy. the ability to understand what the other person is going through is very important.

as for physical traits, I have a thing for eyes...
some muscle...
umm...
cheekbones...
hmm...^_~

oh, and definitely hygiene. and no cologne!!! god, I hate the smell of cologne.

Awetopsy · Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2001 12:03 am

honesty

Pat · Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2001 12:08 am

Eyebrows that don't meet in the middle.

-Pat

Red Leader · Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2001 2:13 am

Awareness
(vague, but somehow all encompasing?)

[ December 04, 2001: Message edited by: Red Leader ]

Jabberwocky · Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2001 9:20 am

I think the best one is acceptance. I accept people for who they are not what they have or what others have told me, and I want that in return.

Hygiene is a def.

Also someone who has no problem spending time with me, but not too much time it smothers me (harder than you think).

And a know-it-all isn't happening. no one in this world knows everything about everything. And I hate it when people think they know and sware they are right, but you know for a fact they are wrong.

Phsically I'm not too worried about. Although the first thing I notice is the person's eyes. They say everything about that person.

Lunatique · Posted: Wed Dec 05, 2001 12:08 am

It has to be hygiene and kindness. Without those, the rest just means nothing.

a_sh · Posted: Wed Dec 05, 2001 3:13 am

that she loves me in return...

[ December 05, 2001: Message edited by: a_sh ]

Aura · Posted: Wed Dec 05, 2001 7:18 am

for me I'd say to be loved in return and honesty and trust but to stick with desirable I'd say physical appearance is secondary but the way the mouth moves when he talks is appealing and his eyes eyes need to be compassionate and real.Real?

GatoNegro13 · Posted: Thu Dec 06, 2001 11:50 am

artistic and weird like me...

somone who isn't afraid to be himself...I think having similar goals and interests is very important. Looks are important, but do fall in second...but unfortunatly I am a very visual person and if I cant stand to look at the guy there is a problem there. Its not that im shallow I just look at everything with an aesthetic eye.

bld · Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2001 10:23 pm

someone with depth and can add a comment or remark to a conversation that actually means something.
A good sense of humor is a must.
I'm fond of nice asses.
Boob size not important.

Gothic Gerbil · Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2001 5:48 pm

Genuine intelligence, not faked I-can-recite-law-books intelligence, reasoning emotional and logical intelligence. (dated far too many girls that lack intelligence grr me maybe I should acquiret intelligence too)

As for more minor things, acceptance (since I'm particularly strange in a rather rigid portion of society here or so I'm told) and a good bit of humour and, if we're allowed to get physical, great eyes and hair especially if they know what they're doing with their dyes.

Interesting note on the hygiene thing, in my drawing class several of the girls go crazy over the scent of the homemade hand lotion I wear. It is very amusing to suddenly find a girl sniffing your hands.

Pat · Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2001 5:54 pm

"...in my drawing class several of the girls go crazy over the scent of the homemade hand lotion I wear."

Oh dear lord that sounds so wrong.

-Pat

LinaBo · Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2001 6:15 pm

*laughs* umm...yeah.

Gothic Gerbil · Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2001 6:20 pm

Hrmm ... mayhap I should've worded it differently. But still, it feels like one of those stereotypical conan pictures with me sitting on this high chair and these two beautiful girls crouched down sniffing my hands. It is all I can do not to laugh in class! That probably made the mental images for you even worse.

LinaBo · Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2001 7:52 pm

=X

*shudders*