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ceenda · member Member # Joined: 27 Jun 2000 Posts: 2030

Why is it we always fall for the bad ones?

Even when we know they are:
A) Pretty obnoxious, vain people.
B) Certainly not an intellectual challenge.
C) People in whom we have nothing in common.

Yep folks, it's happened to me and I can't get it out of my mind.

Anyone been there?

faustgfx · Posted: Tue May 15, 2001 7:51 am

because we're superficial wether we like it or not. mile long legs and world devourer breasts and pea size brains. *nods* or at least YOU people do.

Lunatique · Posted: Tue May 15, 2001 4:44 pm

Well, sometimes we know what we desire, but we don't know what's good for us. They aren't usually the same thing. Eventually, you learn, after much heartache. Some NEVER learn, no matter how much pain they've acquired.

My ex-roomate always liked bad boys because they are "so exciting." Well, bad boys never liked her back because she is anything but exciting. After a few heartbreaks, she dated a techie geek who actualy treated her well, and wasn't a slacker loser. Now, she's much happier, but she confesses that she can't really be "in love" with him because he's just not very "cool." But, she knows better than to go with the hip bad boys now.

As for my personal expriences, after being treated badly by a girl once, I vowed to never allow anyone to walk all over me again, no matter how attracted to her or how much I think I love that person.

There are definitely attractive people who are also very intelligent and genuinely nice. It's hard to find them because they are either taken, or you are not their type, but when it clicks, it's time to get married.

Don't give up. Those of us who are still looking for that soulmate will go on looking until the day we die, or eventually find her/him.

Impaler · Posted: Tue May 15, 2001 6:36 pm

Love? What love?

Read the object of affection thread. She was a dumb blonde aberfitch cheerleader type and I knew it.

Now I favor a beautiful brilliant blonde with a heart of gold and hair to match, a mind of steel and a face that clears mine. She won't go out with me because I'm not christian.

Yet I still love(d) them both. Why? Because it's to mask the lies of the meaning of life.

A.Buttle · member Member # Joined: 20 Mar 2000 Posts: 1724

I hear ya. I hate my girlfriend just about now.

Chris · Posted: Tue May 15, 2001 8:07 pm

Let me shed some light onto the subject.

A Woman is like the world:

Before the age of 13, she's like Antarctica;
Pure and innocent

Between the ages of 13 - 17 she's like darkest Africa ;
Mysterious and unexplored.

Between the ages of 18 - 23 she's like the Middle East ;
Tempestuous, restless and dictatorial.

Between the ages of 24 - 32 she's like North America ;
Cool, calm and calculating

Between the ages of 33 - 45 she's like the Scandinavian Territories;
Stable, boring, and never in the news

Between the ages of 46 - 49 she's like Asia;
Filled with wisdom and a looong history.

Between the ages of 50 - 64 she's like Europe;
All wrecked and devastated

Above the age of 65 she's like Australia;
Everyone knows where it is but who the hell wants to go there ???

Chris · Posted: Tue May 15, 2001 8:10 pm

And one last thing. Maybe you lost her because you didn't understand the language she was speaking. If so I found the womens dictionary.

All you need to know about what women say is below (What women say = What it means)

We need = I want

It's your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now

What do you want = You'll pay for this later

We need to talk = I need to complain

You're...so manly = You need a shave and you sweat alot

You're certainly attentive tonight! = Is sex all you ever think about?

I'm not emotional! And I'm not overreacting! = I've got my period

This kitchen is so inconvienient = I want a new house

I want new curtains = and carpeting, and furniture, and wallpaper ...

I need wedding shoes = the other 40 pairs are the wrong shade of white

Hang the picture there = NO, I mean hang it there

I heard a noise = I noticed you were almost asleep

Do you love me? = I'm going to ask for something expensive

How much do you love me? = I did somthing today you're not going to like

I'll be ready in a minute = kick off your shoes and find a good game on TV

Is mu butt fat? = Tell me I'm beautiful

You have to learn to communicate = Just agree with me

Yes = No

No = No

Maybe = No

I'm sorry = You'll be sorry

Do you like this recipe? = It's easy to fix so you'd better get used to it

I'm not yelling! = Yes I'm yelling because I think it's important

All we're going to buy is a soapdish = It goes without saying that we're stopping at the cosmetics department, the shoe department, I need to look at a few purses, and those sheets would look great in the bedroom and did you bring your cheque book?

A.Buttle · member Member # Joined: 20 Mar 2000 Posts: 1724

buah hahah hahahahahah!!!!!!!

KrassOtti · member Member # Joined: 07 Mar 2001 Posts: 112

"Well, sometimes we know what we desire, but we don't know what's good for us."

sometimes we know what's good, but we still don't stop because of too much desire. For example, I have these cookies sitting next to me and I ate all the cookies even though I felt sick already the whole day today and yesterday. I know this is gonna suck eating them, but the desire is too great...

Oh and back on topic of girls. After searching for some years for a great girl I finally find one and now I am moving away many many miles, so we gotta brake up. Life sux.

Though usually when I have a bad girlfriend I don't fall in love with them and they are just there to have fun with =] So that sorta works out for me..., but still life and girls = evil

sacrelicious · Posted: Tue May 15, 2001 9:53 pm

What's going on with your gf, Buttle? Mine just broke up with me, I'm sure we could swap stories.

A.Buttle · member Member # Joined: 20 Mar 2000 Posts: 1724

She was being pretty stupid about the whole "going to New York'' thing. She's chilled out since I told her.... it's getting better....

Frost · Posted: Wed May 16, 2001 5:30 am

I'm not going to comment on that topic, since I'd probably make a fool of myself. Right Jezebel? =)

[ May 16, 2001: Message edited by: Frost ]

Jezebel · Posted: Wed May 16, 2001 8:29 am

Frost, hehehe

I just want to say that I'm a girl and I don't believe this to be true

... you guys should get a kick out of it though

A.Buttle · member Member # Joined: 20 Mar 2000 Posts: 1724

buah hahahhahahaha hahhahahhah^2

KrassOtti · member Member # Joined: 07 Mar 2001 Posts: 112

Jezebel: Of course, how could it be true? After all, "and" means "+" and not "*"

Still funny though

faustgfx · Posted: Thu May 17, 2001 8:15 am

quote:
Originally posted by Chris:
All you need to know about what women say is below (What women say = What it means)

We need = I want

It's your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now

What do you want = You'll pay for this later

We need to talk = I need to complain

You're...so manly = You need a shave and you sweat alot

You're certainly attentive tonight! = Is sex all you ever think about?

I'm not emotional! And I'm not overreacting! = I've got my period

This kitchen is so inconvienient = I want a new house

I want new curtains = and carpeting, and furniture, and wallpaper ...

I need wedding shoes = the other 40 pairs are the wrong shade of white

Hang the picture there = NO, I mean hang it there

I heard a noise = I noticed you were almost asleep

Do you love me? = I'm going to ask for something expensive

How much do you love me? = I did somthing today you're not going to like

I'll be ready in a minute = kick off your shoes and find a good game on TV

Is mu butt fat? = Tell me I'm beautiful

You have to learn to communicate = Just agree with me

Yes = No

No = No

Maybe = No

I'm sorry = You'll be sorry

Do you like this recipe? = It's easy to fix so you'd better get used to it

I'm not yelling! = Yes I'm yelling because I think it's important

All we're going to buy is a soapdish = It goes without saying that we're stopping at the cosmetics department, the shoe department, I need to look at a few purses, and those sheets would look great in the bedroom and did you bring your cheque book?

AAAAAAAAAAMEN!

travis travis · Posted: Thu May 17, 2001 9:00 am

AHAHAHA!

hilarious thread...

and for your sakes girls, I'd like to say all that stuff isn't true, but uhm....

edit: ok, the actual question, why are people willling to hook up with just about anyone regardless of the intelligence of the union? well we are all desperate, insecure little creatures, what can I say.

[ May 17, 2001: Message edited by: travis travis ]

faustgfx · Posted: Thu May 17, 2001 10:55 am

sex deprivation.

the scourge and disease of the male half of human race.

SpiralEye · Posted: Thu May 17, 2001 5:32 pm

I used to think that women were inherently evil.

See SpiralEye Rants! Women are Evil!

But, I was wrong.

Now I just think that women are inherently confused.

Except my wife, of course! :] She married me.

Vesuvius · Posted: Thu May 17, 2001 5:37 pm

the reason, ceenda, is because you aren't going out with me.
Oh, and jezebel, who are you at SA? somegirl fistgrrl who?

Frost · Posted: Thu May 17, 2001 6:17 pm

faust: "the scourge and disease of the male half of human race." -- yehh...

social drone · member Member # Joined: 12 Mar 2001 Posts: 120

"Why is it we always fall for the bad ones?"

because the good ones dont want you...